If I only knew...
Published on January 28, 2004 By Redshirt #3 In Personal Relationships
If I ask her out and she says no, what happens then? We live in the same building, on the same floor, and I consider her a friend. I wouldn’t want to create an awkward situation between us. But then I’ll never know what could have been.

If I don’t ask her out, things will stay the same, I’ll probably keep having this crush, and I’ll keep being lonely. But, she’ll still be a friend that I trust and can get along with.

If I ask her out and she says no, because she already is going out with someone, I’ll feel miserable. But, things can always change.

If I ask her out, and she says no, because she doesn’t want that sort of that relationship, or the possibility of that sort of relationship, with me, I’ll be heartbroken, for a while. But, then I can move on.

Now, if I can only work up the courage… before it’s too late. Again.

Comments
on Jan 28, 2004
ask her out, but don't make it seem like it's a date... take her out as a friend, on a Wednesday night. Dinner and a couple drinks... just friends hanging out. Watch her body language and see if she's hinting at anything more... you'll know by the end of the night whether to go through with asking her out again, as more than friends. No matter how well things are going, don't try any funny business on the first night...

body language body language body language... it rarely lies